Create a Gang
BY Mike Foti
I was talking to Ann a business owner who said to me, “Mike there is no loyalty
in business today! My people are being lured away with signing bonuses and some
are event leaving for $.50 more per hour. They just don’t listen to me and
certainly aren’t loyal to the company. I keep working harder to operate and lead
this business but I’m not getting anywhere!”
Mike, “What you need around here is a
gang!”
Ann, “Are you nuts? We already have enough violence in the streets.”
Mike, “I’m not talking about a violent street gang. I’m talking about a
gang of people who are excitedly working together for a positive common purpose.
A team. People who really care about one another and working for the collective
benefit of the whole organization.”
Ann, “That sounds like some democratic B.S. to me!”
Mike, “If I could show you a formula to create this kind of gang would
you be interested?”
Ann, “Would I be interested? I would be interested in anything that would
keep me from beating my head against this wall anymore!”
I presented a formula to Ann that starts
with philosophy and then develops how you create your own gang.
The Philosophy of Gangs
Point 1 – You need a gang – Almost all people have an inherent need for
belonging. Whether “your gang” is a church group, fraternity, company, Internet
group, association, or a host of other possibilities you thrive and grow through
connections with others. You have the desire to feel part of something. If your
people feel independent and disconnected from the whole you’ll end up with
anarchy- everyone running around with no mutual destination.
Point 2 – You need to believe – Believe in what?
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Competence– You must believe your people
are competent (or could be competent with training to improve their skills).
When you show confidence, respect, and set higher expectations (with an eye
toward reality) your people will strive to meet your expectations. Confidence
in others’ competence is a starting point for a better results.
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Basic goodness of people; delivering on your
values – Do you believe people are “out to get you” and “take a piece of
your action” or do you believe people are basically good and will respond
positively in an environment of sound values, vision- where they can be
excited and engaged in work? If you don’t truly believe in the basic goodness
of others you are limited by your arm span or are forced to create an
organizational system with many controls. Ask yourself,
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“Do I want to managed?”
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“Do good people want to be managed or do they
want to be trusted?”
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“Do I open myself up to trusting people first or
do I demand others earn my trust?”
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Am I true to my values when no one is looking or
when it is financially inconvenient to live to a high standard?
Point 3 – See your gang as a mosaic, not a
pyramid – Your gang is not a pyramid with you at the top (even if the formal
chart says you are). Your gang needs to be made up of a mosaic of different
people, ideas, and communities. Gang members need an equal balance of rights and
responsibilities. They have the right to express themselves without fear of
retribution. They understand consistent with these rights is a responsibility to
respect and seek to understand others and be accountable for results. All gang
members are here to serve one another for the mutual benefit of your community.
Creating our Gang
Developing a gang is a 3- step process filled with benefits, challenges, and
responsibilities.
Step 1 – Developing unified and diverse members that stay together.
Turnover is an increasingly challenging problem. Our hiring environment today is
a “sellers market.” How do we find and retain members? Consider:
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Write down the 10 most important things in your
life.
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Narrow and prioritize your list to the 3 top
values.
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Identify people you connect well with and compare
how you perceive their values match with yours. You should see a great degree
of correlation here.
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Seek gang members whose list matches yours.
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Appreciate diversity and uniqueness – This
is a key area where “progressive gangs” vary from “traditional gangs.” You are
not looking for blind faith and conformity. You are looking for uniquely
talented people who have the gumption to innovate, change, and push new ideas
and concepts in the street. These people are likely to be independent thinkers
with differing perspectives. The challenge will be to catch yourself from
disagreeing first and asking questions later to “seeking first to understand
and then to be understood.”
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Rituals, symbols, experiences and celebrations
– When you share experiences you will bond with your gang. Some ideas to
consider:
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Volunteer as a team for a non-profit – You can
learn more about fellow gang members by moving dirt while contributing labor
for Habitat for Humanity than can often be learned in a formal performance
appraisal.
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Celebrate with unique trophies- give awards to
your team that fit your environment. Cleveland Glass Block gives out “Golden
Trowel” and “Block-Buster” awards.”
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Respectful “hazing” is OK- The Cleveland Browns
used to send rookies out on a quest for a free turkey every Thanksgiving. The
veterans had a good laugh and the rookies learned to laugh at themselves. A
positive lesson to build the team.
Step 2 – Motivating Members – Your gang
members need to feel they are excited, engaged, growing and contributing. The
key question is how?
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Our vision and purpose is energizing –
Show me the money is not enough! How can the vision of your organization help
the community? How can the purpose help your members? When you create a
greater good and purpose you magnetize people into action.
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Talents are matched to mission – Your gang
members have unique talents and gifts. Have you asked them where they see
their strengths, interests and talents both inside and outside the
organization? Consider asking the following:
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How would you rate your position from 1 to 10?
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What duties could/ would you like to add or
delete to move towards a 10?
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Do you need any training to move forward? How can
you help them?
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Align members’ interests and strengths to the
mission.
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Recognize growth is a bumpy road –
Inherent in growth is experimentation, discomfort, and mistakes. Challenge
your gang to try new things and experiences. When setbacks occur ask them to
reflect on the lessons.
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Role of “CEO” – Recognize your role as
“Chief Encouragement Officer.” Find opportunities to tell others you are proud
of their efforts and contribution. Also remember as leadership writer Max
Depree says, “Leadership begins with please and ends with thank you.”
Step 3 – “Tough Love” is Required – With the
benefits of gang membership (personal fulfillment, purpose, sense of belonging
and contribution) comes responsibilities. Your gang needs to deliver on the
mission “in the streets!” This will require difficult conversations and changes.
How do you lead through these conversations and changes?
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Assertive communications are imperative! –
You need to be respectful, yet direct when things go awry. Consider purchasing
“Asserting Yourself Appropriately” by Sam Lombardo for a quick implementation
model for increasing assertiveness.
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You are accountable for results and your best
– Ultimately your team needs to deliver on results. Set expectations in the
“slightly uncomfortable zone” and set up periodic checkpoints to evaluate
progress. Insist that gang members deliver on their personal best.
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Share battles won and lost – Our gang
needs to hear the good, the bad, and the ugly. Share information and solicit
input where appropriate when reflecting on “lost battles.”
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Lifetime membership is not a requirement-
Full engagement is! Membership in your gang needs to be a personal choice.
Your people need to be free to leave if the gang’s mission and/or their
talents are no longer a match. Members who do not have the opportunity to
contribute fully and grow will be encouraged and assisted finding a more
appropriate gang.
Conclusion
Ann, “Wow Mike, that sounds like a lot of
work!”
Mike, “I never told you it was going to be easy. Creating a gang is a
process. It first starts with you. Do you believe in the philosophy? Are you
willing to continuously work to be the model gang member yourself? Will you
commit yourself to taking action along this frequently bumpy road?
Ann, “How will I know when I’ve successfully created the gang? Can I get
help?”
Mike, “I’m not sure if we ever completely arrive, but we do get closer to
having a model gang. You will feel getting closer when you have a more
energetic, motivated, productive, and fun work environment with people waiting
to join the gang. If you need help give me a call. I love to help!
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Mike Foti is Chief Executive Officer of Cleveland Glass Block (a
Northcoast 99 recipient for best employers in Northeast Ohio and a Community
Pillar Award winner for community service) and President of Leadership Builders.
Mike is a national speaker, writer, and consultant who helps individuals and
companies get results through people. To ask Mike how he might help you, or to
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